Visiting Petra in three videos

Drive to Petra

Our drive from Amman Airport to the town of Petra

Petra I

Our hike from the entrance of Petra, passed the Treasury and to the Nabatean Theatre

Petra II

Up the cliff staircase, with some amazing views of the valley, and to the Monastery

Hilarious guys move their queen mattress via scooter in Vietnam

We’ve seen some crazy things on scooters but this took the cake. 5-stars for form and execution.

For 5 minutes leading up to this clip (sorry, I got my camera started late) these guys were scratching their head, trying various mattress/scooter positions until they got it it right. I love the final starfish approach!

The things we loved and hated about Bangkok

I’ve heard mixed reviews from friends about their visit to Bangkok. Here was our take.

What we hated about Bangkok

The old district was filled with beautiful palaces, temples, and markets – some of which took our breath away. Most of the time however we were cramped in huge queues and packed walkways. Traffic was so bad that it took 1-hour to get from place-to-place by taxi, when it should only have taken 15 minutes; leaving us to decide whether to walk for an hour or sit in traffic for an hour. Lose / Lose.

To kick a tourist when they’re down, scammers made sure we missed out on some great sites – literally. We have traveled A LOT and by now are used to avoiding 10X overpriced cabs or tuk-tuks (thank god for Uber, BTW). We’ve heard the let’s-be-friends-and-shake-hands gag, that precludes trying to sell an overpriced tour, a million times before. Those typical tourist traps didn’t bring us down.

We were caught off guard, however, when locals (dressed up like staff at the gates of each site) said, “You can’t get in with those clothes”, or, “The temple is closed for a service for two hours. Come back later.” We were wearing shorts and read that some temples don’t allow that type of attire. We thought, why would a scammer turn you away instead of offering a tour? So, we assumed it was all legit.

Our red flags started getting raised when the warnings were followed up with a helpful rundown of what is open in the area and ended with the classic, “I’ll show you around for 100 Baht” – plus 200 Baht for this and 500 Baht for that. We thought they were just workers just trying to make an extra buck – no biggie. We told them, “no thanks” as we started rearranging our schedule around what we were told were unavailable sites. We would have missed out on these sites completely had it not been for the fact that we walked up to the “REAL”  entrance accidently and saw a bunch of people in shorts getting in. WTF?

Turns out, not only were the temples open but you could borrow garments to cover improper clothing for free. The best scams are filled with a bit of truth, right? What a shitty thing to do: turn tourists away from sites just to get them to take a tour instead. It seemed like everywhere we turned people were using this gag, and it felt like the last straw. Or maybe it was the last straw when a local got cursed at us after we ignored him when he tried to use the, “you can’t get in, ride with me instead!” line on us as he followed us down the block.

What we loved about Bangkok

We really have a new appreciation for why people find Bangkok so polarizing. On the nights we avoided the old town area we really enjoyed ourselves. Not only was our hotel suite only $50/night, but it was located in a modern and trendy area. Our hotel offered a free tuk-tuk to the nearby market (and since it wasn’t as congested where we stayed the ride took minutes, as expected.) We had amazing 1-hour Thai massages for $5.50. Our 1-hour cab rides were $4 on Uber. The nearby night market was reasonably quiet and enjoyed great food for about $1.50 a plate.

We were surprised by just how modern the downtown areas were. Every few stops on the metro line (which cost $0.50-$1 per person) had 9-story malls filled with gourmet restaurants, bakeries, and chic retail stores. You won’t get jaw dropping prices in these areas. As a matter of fact, some places were as expensive or more expensive than they were back home, but everything was so close to one another you could easily choose between a great budget meal at a street vender or a gourmet pastry in the mall.

Asiatique, although touristy, was another cool outdoor shopping mall. Again, it was filled with high priced items, but it felt like a place you’d be happy to visit back home and we found that to be a nice break from the chaos.

Why is Bangkok So Polarizing?

As you can read above, it dramatically depends on where and when you decide to visit sites and where you choose to stay in the city. I’d suggest beating the rush by getting through the temples in the old part of town super early, and read up on where the entrances really are, what dress codes are required-ish, and the day’s opening hours, so you can’t be easily duped. Walking around with headphones may even help you avoid the cacophony of honking sounds and the hoard of locals trying to take advantage of grabbing your attention.

Then, be sure to relax in the parts of town away from the chaos and position yourself to easily walk from spot-to-spot before grabbing a cab in a lightly populated area. Also, go into Bangkok willing to accept that you will always be duped out of $1-5 per transaction. If you go in (and budget) with that mentality, instead of thinking in percentage (e.g. “they charged me twice as much as they should have!”) it will sting far less.

The Martian: A perfect book for the casual Product Manager

About two years ago a couple of nerdy colleagues of mine told me of an amazing new book they were reading. “A man is stuck on Mars and must figure out how to survive by planting crops and re-engineering his habitat. It is very precise and it takes you step by step through his thought process by using his ship’s log entries.”, they explained. It didn’t sell me. Actually, it sounded pretty awful at the time. Although I have dabbled in some Sci-Fi reading I don’t seek it out, it’s either classics or learning books for me. So, I passed.

Fast-forward to 2015, and, as you probably have heard, Matt Damon was selected to play the lead (Mark Watney) in the new blockbuster movie of the same name. I was shocked to hear it. I began seeing “The Martian” on newsstands all over the world as we traveled. It altered my expectations of just how good this “nerdy” novel could be. The tipping point occurred when I found out my fiancé Jackie (a major anti-nerd type) had begun reading it as well. Soon after, I dove into my trusty kindle to see what all the fuss was about. The marketing had won.

As it turns out Jackie never made it through the entire novel, and I can see why. Although I loved the book, it was, as she put it: “full of acronyms and terminology that made it tough to keep up with.” (You can learn more about the termonology used in the book in the appendix below.) My initial perception of the book was correct, it is definitely a nerdy novel. That being said, Weir has done an amazing thing I can fully appreciate: he places you on mars in a very plausible and realistic way. The reader walks, step-by-step at times, through what a visit to the red planet would be like. Nerd or not, from my perspective that turned out to be pretty cool, and an emotional rollercoaster to boot! To keep you from feeling too much like you deserve a wedgie while reading it, Watney’s character constantly downplays his intensely analytical and scientific mind with wit and sarcasm.

The product manager side of me was constantly finding itself relating to Watney’s thought process as he worked his way through solving one life threatening challenge at a time. Sure, it’s a stretch to say surviving on a habitable planet  is a lot like building a product – but it is. You have a goal and are confronted with two sets of problems: ones that have mappable solutions and ones that have never been solved before that are full of unknowns. You need to run tests and create hypotheses to try and derive knowns from those unknowns so you can begin to generate a sense of effort and time. Some days you feel like you’re working hard for nothing and it is time to quit, other days you feel like you’re king of the world; the first to successfully solve a problem, a problem that no one has solved before. And, most importantly, you’re goal is awash if you don’t figure out how to prioritize your tasks one problem at a time as it relates to your mission.

I especially love hearing him think aloud as he works his way through each hurdle. First he imagines his goal (often one that has never been seen by mankind before) and then works backwards with “how can I get that done?”, dissecting each larger problem into smaller ones to attack; often putting some off for later. For example, here is an excerpt of him working out how he can get enough calories (vis-a-vis potatoes) to last another couple of years while he awaits a rescue mission.

I need to create calories. And I need enough to last the 1387 sols until Ares 4 arrives. If I don’t get rescued by Ares 4, I’m dead anyway. A sol is 39 minutes longer than a day, so it works out to be 1425 days. That’s my target: 1425 days of food…

Presuming I can overcome the problems, they net me another 20 square meters, bringing my farmland up to 126. One hundred and twenty-six square meters of potato plants. That’s something to work with. I still don’t have the water to moisten all that soil, but like I said, one thing at a time.

He also often exemplifies the iterative development life-cycle mentality, per the excerpt below. He fully understanding that his initial assumptions may not stand up to his tests, but recognizes that something must be done to be able to gather real data, and improve the plan from there.

Things weren’t 100% succesful. They say no plan survives first contact with implementation. I’d have to agree.

If you’re in the product development field (or interested in improving your skills in the field) I think you will find this book highly engaging. It’s educational while still being action packed and an emotional novel about space colonization to boot! If you’re going to nerd it up with a novel, I say The Martian by Andy Weir is the way to go.

The Martian Word Appendix

For those feeling intimidated by the Acronym laden read, here are a few words and their definitions to keep things flowing smoothly for you. Let me know if I am missing any so I can update the list for others.

EVA: Extra-Vehicular Activity. Describes both the space suit and the activities done while using the space suit.

The Hab: Short for the Mars Lander habitat: a high-tech tent astronauts can relax in without wearing a spacesuit. Their home away from home.

Sol: A Solar Day, which is 24 hours, 39 minutes

MAV: Mars Ascent Vehicle. Basically a ship used to leave the Mars surface. In the book a MAV was left behind in the previously failed missions. The MAV has tons of equipment Watney may be able to use to survive but it is far from his HAB.

MDV: Mars Descent Vehicle: the device used to land on Mars

RTG: Radioisotope Thermonuclear Generator. It is a radioactive electrical generator. Though, Watney uses it as a heater since it gets really hot and Mars is very cold.

ARES: Aerial Regional-scale Environmental Survey. A name for the Mars mission what is on. Just like the Apollo missions got people to the moon, ARES missions exploring different parts of Mars. Watney is a crew member of Ares 3. For him to get rescued he has to find a way to stay alove until ARES 4 as able to save him.

Mars Opportunity Rover:  A probe that landed on Mars in 2004, as of July 28th, 2014 it had traveled over 25 miles, which is about 40 kilometers. If the rover is able to continue on and get to 26.2 miles it will be able to examine what is called Marathon Valley.

Mars Pathfinder: Landed on Mars on July 4th, 1997- it seemed to be only effective for a couple of years.

Phobos: The innermost of Mars two moons. It’s also the largest of the two moons. Phobos is closer to any planet than any other moon in the solar system.

Deneb: brightest star in constellation Cygnus, one of the vertices of the summer triangle and the 19th brightest star in the night sky. It’s many more times illuminos than our own sun.